In the article “How
your birth order influences your life adjustment,” by Lucille Forer, the idea
of a child’s development based upon their family is accurate in most cases. I agree
with the claim of the role in the family based upon the order he or she was conceived,
will impact a child’s psychology. A child being able I to understand and
communicate his strengths and weaknesses, will develop skills that enable
himself to work well with others. The eldest and only child’s roles are most similar
in regards to the idea of humility being suppressed from their youth and the
shift of responsibility. Which leaves the youngest emotionally interdependent
upon dynamic within his immediate environment. When only syndrome comes into
play within most relationships, its usually irritable to anyone outside the
immediate family.
Firstly, the independence of an
only child can have negative or positive impact. Developing the idea of being
decisive from the early stages of youth, aids the transition of being able to
relate and get along with others. In relation to the oldest sibling,
establishing the confidence and responsibility of a leader, due to the role
established during childhood via his parents. However, when not in a
comfortable situation, the stubbornly resilient bravado takes its toll and the
ability to convey the need of assistance is obsolete. My older brother found it
difficult to convey that he needed to come home to become more grounded and
stable. Thus, he moved to the southwest and until recent established a more
balance lifestyle, in terms of religion, occupation and family. Moreover, the
middle child role can either set the president of a will to prove worthy or
extremely self –indulgent due to the family role of assistance being very available.
In addition, the family dynamic
of role establishment provides the opportunity to flourish because parental
nurturing and sibling hierarchy. Growing up with two brothers, I obtained the
role as the middle child at very young age. The ability to understand the
division of nurturing at a young age was beneficial in regards to me not
obtaining selfish but selfless attitude towards others. Being able to fathom
the idea of humility and the appropriate time to express runs parallel with the
role of the middle child. However, becoming complacent with someone being there
when you need them enables a lack of responsibility which has a relation to the
development of the youngest sibling.
In closing, the maturation of
the last conceived is critically based upon the family dynamic. Whether its
pressure to do well due to your older siblings flourish or not quite acting
upon their potential, the pressure exist. Establishing a consistent behavior pattern
of around the clock nurturing and assistance can be an unable by the lack of
independence developed. Until recently my younger brother needed and yearned
for family attention while away at college. I expressed to him until he finds
what is important to him, he’ll consistently need guidance.
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